18/08/2010

kalau korang tengok wajah mek wook apa pula yang tersirat di dalam hati nenek tua ini?aku mengandaikan dia dah bosan dan jemu namun tetap setia untuk membawa mat noor pulang ke pangkal jalan.nek wook juga turut mengakui dia dah bosan dengan tingkah laku suami mudanya itu yang tak habis-habis kembali menagih dadah.banyak wang ringgit nek wook dihabiskan untuk menjamin dan mengubati ketagihan dadah mat noor.

sayangnya kata nek wook mat noor tetap mengulangi kesalahan yang sama.berat mata memandang berat lagi bahu nek wook yang memikul bebanan  ditanggungnya.aku bukan lah nak mengadili kehidupan orang lain tapi kalau korang lihat sendiri semenjak kebelakangan ini banyak tragedi berdarah yang terjadi akibat perbuatan menagih dadah.terbaru kisah suami dan bapa yang sanggup menyimbah cuka getah terhadap anak dan isterinya gara-gara ketagihan dadah.

apalah salah nek wook yang berusia lebih seratus tahun ini?mungkinkah berpuluh-puluh tahun yang lalu dia pernah mengecewakan hati seorang lelaki yang menyintai dirinya,nah sekarang nek wook telah menerima pembalasan dengan mendapat suami penagih dadah.namun itu hanya andaian dan pendapat aku bukannya pengadilan untuk nek wook.apapun pada aku nenek tua ini seorang wanita yang amat setia.kalaulah mereka wanita yang di luar sana mempunyai sifat setia yang maha tinggi seperti nek wook dan alangkah indahnya jikalau lelaki yang baik budi pekerti berpasangan dengan nek wook.inilah ketentuan ILAHI.

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29/07/2010

Kalau lu orang rasa bosan tak tau nak buat apa sama ada di rumah, office atau sekolah ,  ni gua cadangkan salah satu aktiviti yang lu orang boleh buat untuk kurangkan tension atau kebosanan lu orang…

Tadi gua... dah cuba buat gunakan semut api... gua cuba buat macam mana gayanya semut api jatuh terkangkang kat pentas, tak berapa menjadi beb... susah aarrr... sebab kecik sangat, nak kena gunakan binatang yang besar sikit. kalau guna Gajah boleh kot..???

Caranya seperti berikut;

1. Mula2…cari
lalat, tibai bagi mampoih, tapi jangan sampai terpenyet…

2. Ambik kertas, susun lalat2 yang mampoih tadi ikut kesukaan…

3. Lukis apa patut menggunakan imaginasi/kepala otak bergeliga tu…

4. Hasilnya…..tadaaaaa….. macam kat bawah ni… kalau nak meriah lagi…boh.. dalam frame….

5. Boleh gak guna menatang lain…contohnya lipas, lipan, katak, belalang, kutu, riang2… nak besaq lagi.. boleh guna beruk, labi-labi, babi... harimau... gajah pun boleh kalau lu orang sanggup...

6. Kalau lu orang tak sanggup menganiaya binatang, lu orang nak  gunakan manusia pun boleh. sesiapa saja yang lu orang suka..

 

Renung2kan dan Selamat mencuba!!! Berhati-hati dan banyak bersabar, kalau tension sangat baik pecahkan jer kepala... 


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18/01/2010

Hal ini berlaku di KL baru2 ni.. Saya dapat tahu dari kakak ipar kawan saya cara baru orang memperdaya perempuan untuk dirogol. Kawan dia sendiri yang telah menjadi mangsa. Kawan dia keluar ofis agak lewat iaitu agak2 dekat malam juga. Dia terserempak dengan seorang kanak2 menangis di tepi jalan. Kerana kesian, dia hampiri dan bertanya budak tu kenapa dia sorang2 petang2 begini. Budak tu kata yang dia dah sesat dan minta dihantar balik ke rumahnya. Budak tu kemudiannya menunjukkannya sekeping kertas yang tertulis alamat rumahnya. Perempuan ni kira berhati mulia, tanpa mengesyaki apa2 terus bawa budak tu ke alamat berkenaan. Setibanya di rumah itu, dia pun menekan loceng pintu.. Sejurus kemudian dia pengsan lantaran loceng berkenaan disambungkan dengan wayar berkuasa tinggi.

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Hari berikutnya apabila dia tersedar, dia berada di sebuah rumah kosong di kawasan berbukit, dalam keadaan telanjang. Kondom ada di merata2 dengan air mani berhamburan. Tak kurang 20 kondom semuanya. Dia langsung tak mengenali penyerangnya. Begitulah jenayah akhir2 ini mensasarkan mangsanya. Jika terserempak dengan keadaan sebegini, jangan sesekali turuti kemahuan kanak2 itu, sebaliknya hantar je dia ke balai polis yang berdekatan
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

P/S: Hantarlah kepada rakan2 anda yang wanita supaya mereka berhati2 & hantar pada rakan2 anda yang lelaki supaya mereka boleh memperingatkan adek2, kakak2 & ibu mereka. Selamatkan mereka dari menjadi mangsa syaitan yang bertopengkan manusia. Jangan biar naluri keperihatinan mereka mendatangkan bahaya pada mereka sendiri

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08/01/2010
Perasan takut, cuak dan gabra selalu menghantui pemandu bila ingin memotong lori panjang di jalan raya. Kalau anda tidak mempunyai perasaan tersebut, anda memang berani mati...Bukan apa, saya ingin berkongsi pengalaman ketika saya memandu pulang dari Kampung saya di Kuala Lipis ke Kuala Lumpur melalui jalan dalam (tembus ke Karak). Bukan tak nak ikut jalan biasa. Selalunya pada musim perayaan, jalan biasa menjadi 'luar biasa'. Keadaan yang selalunya tenang di bukan hari perayaan bertukar menjadi seakan 'Kuala Lumpur' di waktu puncak. Untuk mengelakkan 'jam' yang selalu di tempuhi di Kuala Lumpur, saya mengambil keputusan menggunakan jalan 'dalam' menghala ke Temerloh tapi 'exit' di Karak.
Keadaan jalanraya, boleh tahanlah. memang berlubang sana sini tapi siapa peduli. Wakil rakyat pun tak pernah nak ambil pusing. Asalkan boleh guna, sudah...Banyak juga kereta menggunakan jalanraya tersebut. Mungkin mereka mempunyai objektif yang sama seperti saya. Walaupun bergerak secara tersusun, car by car, tapi, pegerakkan agak laju dan terkawal sampai "berjumpa" dengan lori balak. Time tu, gear berubah arah, accelerator bertukar tahap dan sekaligus mencabar kesabaran. Yelah, nak 'potong benda panjang nie.....paham-paham jelah. Kalau kereta yang berhadapan dengan lori tu tidak memulakan langkah, alamatnya, yang belakang terpaksa menunggu. Apabila turn saya untuk memotong, ada beberapa kereta dan lori di arah bertentangan. 'Tekanan' juga time tu. Once dapat peluang, saya pecut bak mat rempit nampak polis dan Alhamdulilah lepas..Moral of the story, memotong ketika berpeluang. Jangan memotong melulu saja....
*Kadang-kadang tu terfikir, amaran yang dikeluarkan oleh pihak tertentu tentang masa perjalanan lori dan trailer ketika cuti umum di pandang enteng segelintir pemandu dan merekalah menjadi orang pertama membantah amaran tersebut. Tapi, bila dah berlaku kemalangan, dialah orang pertama yang berlari berbatu-batu menyelamatkan diri...Kenapa yek?
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08/01/2010
Mungkin minggu ini adalah minggu Tiger Woods, pemain golf terkemuka dunia. Dalam diam, Tiger Woods pandai menyimpan rahsia tentang skandal di sekelilingnya. Dari 3 ke 11, gila ke ape?...Apabila membaca artikel tentang Tiger Woods di 'cekup', saya ingatkan perkara biasa dan selalu berlaku di US. Tapi, kali ini, ahli sukan pula menunjuk belang. Masakan tidak, dahulu dia gah sebagai seorang jutawan sukan yang tiada tolok bandingnya. Tapi hari ini, popularitinya lebih cenderung pada cerita 'gila seks'nya. Mana silapnya. Mungkin atau sudah pasti Tiger Woods tidak akan datang ke Malaysia untuk PGA yang julung kalinya akan diadakan di Malaysia. Yelah, siapa tak malu? Skandal dari pramugari sampai ke seorang nenek...hebat tu!..
Apapun, saya tetap mengagumi bakat si Tiger Woods dalam golf bukan dalam ehem ehem. Dia sepatutunya belajar dan ambil iktibar atas apa yang terjadi. Satu pengajaran yang dia kena ingat, adalah, belajar simpan rahsia....(hehehe). Sampai masa nie pun, cerita tentang dia tak habis habis di paparkan. Terbaru, cerita ibu mertua dia masuk hospital. Mungkin terlalu banyak tekanan kot. Atau mungkin ....(bahaya kalau saya tulis)...Apapun, benda dah terbongkar, tak boleh nak kambus dah...Pasal accident yang kecil, cerita sensasi yang ter'besar' pula tercetus. Kalau Tiger Woods faham baca blog nie, harap-harap dia banyak bersabar....kalau dia baca lah!
* Tiger Woods sebenarnya berkongsi seorang kekasih yang sekarang nie 'date' dengan George Clooney. Wow, siapa ganas sekarang nie....!!
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20/05/2009
Cheesecake doesn't have to be packed with fat to be good. This delectable light cake is simple to make, low-low-low in fat, and delicious.

Servings: 8 slices

Zest of 1 lemon, chopped
3 egg whites
2/3 cup sugar
1/4 cup cornstarch
1/4 teaspoon vanilla
2-2/3 cup low-fat (1%) cottage cheese
8 low-fat 2-inch x 2-inch graham crackers,  to make 2/3 cup graham cracker

1. Preheat oven to 325 degrees F. and grease an 8-inch springform or cheesecake pan with margarine. You will also need an ovenproof pan large enough to hold the cheesecake pan.

2. Fill a pot or teakettle with water and start heating it to a boil.

3. Place lemon zest, egg whites, sugar, cornstarch, vanilla, and cottage cheese in a blender and blend until very, very smooth (no lumps). Pour into pan.

4. Carefully pour boiling water into large pan so it reaches about halfway up the sides of the springform pan.

5. Bake for 60 minutes or until cheesecake is set and cake tester comes out clean.

6. Remove from pan from water and refrigerate cake in pan for at least 4 hours or overnight. It should be really cold.

7. In a food processor, turn graham crackers into 2/3 cup fine crumbs. After cheesecake has been refrigerated for 4 or more hours, spread crumbs evenly over cake surface and gently pat them down. You may do this just before serving. Before serving, carefully run knife around edge of springform pan and remove sides.

Calories per slice: 160 total; 10 fat; 3 sat-fat

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29/04/2009
One of my good friends is having housewarming party this week. I am thinking of buying her a gift. Any suggestion?
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22/04/2009

It’s the shoulder to lean on. The good advice. The unspoken comfort. The good times and shared laughter. Friendships offer all these benefits, and lots more. They boost your self-esteem, provide companionship and even help protect your health and mental well-being.
         

It’s not always easy to form the close bonds of friendships, though. It may be especially hard to develop and keep up friendships when your life is hectic — work demands, family time, school. But friendships are important for both men and women. Take a minute to think about the friends in your life. Do you have close friends? Would you like to
develop more friendships?

 

Learn why friendships are good for you and how you can bring more friends into your life.

Why friendships are so important

Good friends are good for your health. Talking with a friend over a cup of coffee, going to a ballgame together, chatting while your kids check out the playground, or hitting the links for a round of golf can offer simple but powerful ways to connect. The connections of friendship increase your sense of belonging, purpose and self-worth, promoting
positive mental health.

 

Friendships can help you weather the trauma of a divorce, a job loss or the death of a loved one. Your friends may encourage you to change unhealthy lifestyle habits, such as excessive drinking. Or they may urge you to visit your
doctor when you feel overly anxious, sad or hopeless. Friends can also share in your good times — a new baby, a new job, a new house.

 

They can celebrate the good times with you or offer comfort during the bad. Just knowing that friends are there for you can help you avoid unhealthy reactions to stressful situations.

Ways to actively seek out friendships

Some people benefit from large and diverse networks of friends, while others prefer a smaller circle of friends and acquaintances. You may have certain very close friends you rely on for deeply personal conversations, and more casual friendships for movies, a pickup game of basketball or backyard cookouts.

 

But many adults, especially men, find it hard to develop new friendships or keep up existing friendships. For one thing, time may be short, and friendships may take a back seat to your other priorities, such as long days on the job, tiling the kitchen floor or caring for aging parents. Or maybe you’ve moved to a new community and haven’t yet found a way to meet people.

Developing friendships does take some work. But because friendships are so important to your overall sense of
well-being, it’s worth the time and effort.

Here are some ways you can develop new friendships:

 

  •               Get out with your pet. Seek out a popular dog park, make conversation with those who stop to
    talk on your daily neighborhood jaunts, or make pet play dates.
  •               Work out. Join a class through a local gym, senior center or community fitness facility. Or start a lunchtime walking group at work.
  •               Do lunch. Invite an acquaintance to join you for breakfast, lunch or dinner.
  •               Accept invites. When someone invites you to a party, dinner or social gathering, say yes. Resist the urge to say no just because you may not know everyone there or you may initially feel awkward. You can always leave if you get too uncomfortable.
  •               Volunteer. Hospitals, places of worship, museums, community centers and other organizations often need volunteers. You can form strong connections when you work with people who share a mutual interest.
  •               Join a cause. Get together with a group of people working toward a goal you believe in, such as an election or the cleanup of a natural area.
  •               Join a hobby group. Find a nearby group with similar interests in such things as auto racing, music, gardening, books or crafts.
  •               Go back to school. Take a college or community education course to meet people with similar interests.
  •               Hang out on your porch. Front porches used to be social centers for the neighborhood. If you
    don’t have a front porch, you can still sit out front with a cup of coffee or a good book. Making yourself visible shows that you are friendly and open.

 

You may not become instant friends the first time you meet someone. But the seeds of lasting friendships can be sown with a friendly wave as you’re mowing the lawn or bringing in the newspaper

Keep friendships nurturing and healthy

Developing and maintaining healthy friendships involves give and take. Sometimes you’re the one giving support to your friends, and other times you’re on the receiving end. Letting friends know you care about them and appreciate them will help ensure that their support remains strong when times are rough. It’s as important for you to be a good friend as it is to surround yourself with good friends.

Here are some ways to make sure your friendships remain healthy and supportive:

  •               Go easy. Don’t overwhelm friends with phone calls or e-mails. Communication can be brief — five minutes on the phone or several sentences in an e-mail. Find out how late or early you can call and respect those boundaries. Do have a plan for crisis situations, when you may need to temporarily
    set aside such restrictions.
  •               Be aware of how others perceive you. Ask a friend for an honest evaluation of how you come across to others. Take note of any areas for improvement and work on them.
  •               Don’t compete. Don’t let a friendship turn into a hidden battle over who makes the most money, has the best clothes or the coolest car. Don’t fight over other friends. This will only turn friendships into unhealthy rivalries.
  •               Adopt a healthy, realistic self-image. Both vanity and constant self-criticism can be turnoffs to potential friends.
  •               Resolve to improve yourself. Cultivating your own honesty, generosity and humility will enhance your self-esteem and make you a more compassionate and appealing friend.
  •               Avoid relentless complaining. Nonstop complaining is tiresome and draining on friendships. Talk to
    your friends about how you can change the parts of your life that you’re unhappy about.
  •               Adopt a positive outlook. Try to find the humor in things. Laughter is infectious and appealing.
  •               Listen up. Make a point to ask what’s going on in the lives of your friends. Don’t talk about your own problems all the time. Friendships can’t last when you’re self-absorbed.

 

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